Men’s Mental Health
Gentlemen. Guys. Bros. We need to talk.
We need to have the kind of conversation that usually starts halfway through the first beer on the front nine or when you meet up with your buddies for lunch after not seeing each other for a while. When the conversation lingers a little longer and drifts a little farther than it normally would, where things get just a little more honest.
Here’s the thing. A lot has been written about men’s mental health, your mental health, lately, and for the last couple of years, everybody seems to have a hot take on it. There’s a lot of noise to wade through out there. Most of it seems to land in one of two places. It’s either telling men they need to embrace their feelings and open up more, or warning them that they’re doing everything wrong and better make some serious changes, pronto.
If you pull the camera back far enough, sure, there’s probably some truth to both. Openness is good, and who doesn’t need to improve a little? But at the same time, both are pretty broad-stroke, sophomoric and simple. Not really “useful.” And more importantly, neither of them quite captures what’s actually going on.
For a lot of men, the issue isn’t that they don’t care about mental health. It’s that they don’t always recognize what they’re feeling as “mental health” in the first place.
Let me start with the obvious part: the world around us is different.
Work isn’t as stable. Career paths aren’t as clear. The idea of just “put your head down, do your job, and things will take care of themselves” doesn’t really hold up the way it used to.
At the same time, the ways a lot of men were taught to measure themselves, like providing, progressing and being needed, have gotten fuzzier. A lot of guys out there are working hard but still feeling like they’re not moving forward. Like they’re busy all day but still feel a little…stuck.
Like, you’re doing everything you’re supposed to be doing but something about it feels off. And you can’t explain why.
If you asked most guys what “struggling” looks like, you probably wouldn’t hear words like anxiety or depression. You’d hear something more like, “just a lot of stress lately,” and then a few examples. Maybe work’s been super busy lately, or the boss is making everyone miserable. Maybe it’s not having enough time or as much interest in a sport, art or some other type of hobby like you used to. Maybe it’s having a hard time sleeping. Maybe it’s feeling a little more on edge than usual, snapping at people over small stuff. Maybe it’s having a short fuse at home when you normally wouldn’t. Maybe it’s getting through the day fine but not really looking forward to the next. Maybe it’s telling yourself you’ll get back into a routine next week, and then next week comes and goes.
And because it doesn’t look dramatic, it’s easy to write off. “It’ll pass.”
And sometimes it does. But sometimes it just lingers in the background.
There’s also a part of this that doesn’t really get talked about, and it sits somewhere in between the outside pressure and what’s going on internally.
Expectation
A lot of men were taught, in one way or another, to handle your stuff, not make a big deal out of things, stay steady and just keep moving. And to be clear, those aren’t bad instincts. In a lot of ways, they’re strengths. They make you reliable. They make you someone people can count on. But they also shape how you interpret what you’re feeling.
So instead of thinking, “Something’s off, I should probably look at this,” it usually turns into something more like, “Just fight through it,” or “We’ll get back on track,” or “I’ll figure it out.”
And again, sometimes that works. Until it doesn’t.
So, What Actually Helps?
A Few Real Connections — Not a big circle. Not constant check-ins. Just a couple of people where you don’t have to perform. Where the conversation can drift a little deeper without it feeling forced.
Some Kind of Forward Motion — This matters more than people think. Feeling like you’re building something, at work, at home, physically, mentally, goes a long way. Stagnation is where a lot of that “off” feeling starts.
A Place Where You Can Be Honest, On Your Terms — Not everywhere. Not all the time. But somewhere. That might be a friend, a partner, a coach, a therapist or just a conversation that goes a level deeper than usual.
Structure Beats Intensity — You don’t need a full reset. You don’t need to overhaul everything. Consistency, getting up at the same time, moving your body, having some rhythm to your day, does more than big, occasional changes.
And since we spend most of our time at work, it’s part of this whether we like it or not. But the answer isn’t more programs or turning everything into a mental health initiative. It’s simpler than that. People tend to do better when they have some clarity about what they’re doing, a sense that their work actually matters, relationships that feel real and some feeling of progress. That’s not just good for performance. It’s good for people.
If there’s one thing to take from all of this, it’s this: most men aren’t ignoring their mental health. They’re just operating without a clear way to understand it. The outside has shifted, the inside doesn’t always send clear signals and the expectations in the middle tell you to keep going even when something feels off.
So this isn’t about overcorrecting or turning everything into a conversation about feelings. It’s just about paying a little more attention to what’s actually going on and giving yourself a way to do something with it when it is.
That’s it. Start there. See what happens.
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Tuesday, July 14 | Noon - 1:00 p.m. ET
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Monthly Moves
Five Simple Movements to Reset Body and Brain — And Benefit All of Us
This month’s focus isn’t on workouts or performance — it’s on simple, accessible movement you can work into your day. The idea is straightforward: you don’t need a full routine or a big time commitment to feel better. Especially when things feel a little off, a few minutes of movement can help take the edge off, clear your head and reset your energy without overthinking it.
To perform these exercises:
Walking
Take a short walk, whether it’s around the block, through the office, or just outside for a few minutes. No need to track distance or pace — this is about getting your body moving and giving your mind a break.
The goal: At least 5 to 10 minutes.
Gentle Stretching
Focus on areas that tend to tighten up during the day. Think about your neck, shoulders and lower back. Move slowly and avoid forcing anything. The goal is to release tension, not push limits.
The goal: 1 to 2 minutes per area.
Breath and Movement Reset
Pair slow, controlled breathing with light movement. Try a few shoulder rolls, arm reaches or simply standing up and resetting your posture. This can help regulate your nervous system and improve focus.
The goal: 5 to 8 slow breaths with movement.
Simple Mobility (Light Yoga)
Incorporate a few basic movements like a forward fold, gentle twist or bodyweight squat. These help take your joints through a full range of motion and counteract long periods of sitting.
The goal: 5 to 10 reps per movement.
Short Movement Breaks
Rather than waiting for a full workout, build movement into your day. Stand up between meetings, take a quick walk after lunch or stretch before bed. Small moments add up.
The goal: 3 to 5 breaks throughout the day.
Monthly Recipe
Cucumber-Spinach Sandwich
This June, let’s keep eating simple. When the weather heats up and the days get a little longer, heavier meals start to feel like more work than they’re worth. This cucumber sandwich is the kind of lunch you can throw together in a few minutes and actually look forward to eating.
It’s light, fresh and just substantial enough to keep you going through the afternoon. Crisp cucumber, spinach and avocado layered on whole-grain bread with a simple creamy spread. Atop that, it’s easy, no-fuss and exactly the kind of thing that fits this time of year.
Ingredients
- 12 ounces cream cheese, at room temperature
- 1 tablespoon low-fat plain strained (Greek-style) yogurt
- 1 tablespoon sliced fresh chives
- 1 tablespoon chopped fresh dill
- 1/4 teaspoon ground pepper
- Pinch of salt
- 2 slices whole-wheat sandwich bread, toasted
- 1/2 medium avocado, thinly sliced (about 1/2 cup)
- 1/3 cup sliced English cucumber
- 1/4 cup spinach
- 1 tablespoon thinly sliced red onion
- 1 teaspoon lemon juice
Directions
- Stir 2 ounces cream cheese, 1 tablespoon yogurt, 1 tablespoon chives, 1 tablespoon dill, 1/4 teaspoon pepper and a pinch of salt together in a small bowl until well blended.
- Spread the mixture evenly on one side of each bread slice. Top 1 slice with avocado slices, 1/3 cup cucumber, 1/4 cup spinach and 1 tablespoon onion.
- Drizzle with 1 teaspoon lemon juice, then top with the remaining bread slice, cream cheese–side down. Cut in half diagonally.
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